Connection or A Guys' Take On Female Sexuality

I hav been emboldened of late to write a little more bout female issues from a guys' perspective cos i realise dat i hav a few female frens readin this blog who've given mi comments on wat i written bout female issues..its been refreshin seein things from their perspective so i guess if i wanna noe wat they think, i should write more bout such issues on dis blog...strange psychology huh?

My fren Kumu (of NWO fame; its like a political club) was e one who wanted to noe my opinions on dis interestin case..e background was dis discussion he was havin in the gender studies class he's takin at NUS FASS..he kept wonderin why women hav a higher tendency than guys to hav had a non-single-sex phase in their lives..dat is..were part of homo-sexual or bi-sexual relationships..

well, i was too tired at Dom's birthdae to tell him my views in detail but i promised to devote a blog space to dis so here goes nuttin...gals like each other cos they're gentler physicalli...gals like each other cos they're more emotional..so onli a gal can emotionalli connect with another gal in a way dat a guy who's by nature more rational n emotionalli awkward cannot..

but is it so simple? there r 3 categories here we hav to understand...1) e female who wants to take on e role of e guy..aka e butch, 2) e female who connects emotionalli n sexualli with someone exactli like her in emotion..aka e pure lesbian and 3) e female who is keen to experiment sexualli with guys first, then females next (esp if heart-broken by a cad)..aka e broken bi-sexual..

so how? its not so straight-forward..from my autopsies (just kiddin) i find dat such gals dun need anythin..at least dats wat they like to think...dey onli want a small world centred aroun their relationship..its like some sort of shelter they run to..mayb it has to do with wat women want in a relationship..security n fulfillment..which they find best in a relationship with someone who has e same outlook..(guys look for adoration n admiration..we need someones who needs us..male ego)

wateva it is, for most its a passin phase (but not for all)...like a sort of graduatin class in sexuality they must take to be in full control of their emotions n sex drive...den they can say, its nothin..been there n done dat..now i look for somethin more..if somethin more means (from my viewpoint) facin up to e differences between guys n gals n learnin to adapt n deal with differences because thats part of bein human..den congratulations...perhaps e lesson has served its purpose..but all things considered..i'm just a guy, wat do i noe, rite Cherl?