Lets Talk about Sex

sex...amazin 3 letters we all, regardless of age and frankly, gender, would like to have more of...right guys? a chorus of agreement...

lets face it la..there's a lot of sexuality and desire in our modern society..not all good but all reflecting a deep inner need of humanity...and it is true that many of us Asians are averse to talkin about our sexual needs, fetishes and wants..watevea e newspapers have been sayin lately, i still dun see sex as a topic u'd discuss at the dinner table with mom n pops..which is der gold standard of openess to mi..

when a guy has a sexual experience for der 1st time i believe its very often in a moment of folly...like my fren tells mi...its not alwaez fun becos u dunno wats goin on..it can be a traumatisin n shameful experience as he says; my fren..painful for both der guy n gal...n later when u reallli do it with ur wife or the truth is, for most, their 'galfrens', the thought, "hey, i've done this before" comes to mind...n dat is a secret i hope dat ur wife never finds out unless u're both open enuff for u to tell her..

wat we need in singapore is not a liberal attitude toward sex la...like spg puts it ;-> n wat would dat accomplish? absolutely nuts but for a single muders, unwanted babes n der rise of a new class of have-nots..no father...n contraception? nice but for one caveat...sex is dehumanised n wat dehumanises also desensitizes ...no more fun, joy n a dull throb(or thrust) dat passes off for wat was once pleasure...pathetic

wat singapore needs is open discussion of sex n sexual cravin...sex should humanise n talk of sex should always whet the appetite like a delicate appetizer before a meal...lets be more human n discuss our sexual desires more candidly without blushin but also with respect n dignity...its not a sleaze fest but a love fest baby...