What God wants of the Women

i'm in the mood for some 4 b 2s tonight so lets have some fun...boy am i gonna take great pleasure in this..

they keep sayin What Women Want in that famous Mel Gibson show.. well...i think that like all secular movies...they skew the picture n present relationships and gender differences in a really pathetic way...Phil Jensen would just call it stupid attempts at portraying life as the sum of what you eat and what you drink and what you wear, when all you're doin is invent little games to entertain as we stand in a crematorium queue..

but really, have you ever thought wat God really wants of women? esp if you dare call yourself a christian, do you ever think of wat God wants for you rather than what you want for urself? or are you just bein self-centred?

if you ask mi wat God wants of women, i think i'll need to research it more..but at dis point of time i'll say that Titus instructs the younger women to be self-controlled and pure, kind and loving to husbands and children ( Titus 2:4-5)..

Prov. 31 :30 sums up the key virtue to be "the fear of the Lord"...actually many things seem to apply for guys also...except commands exclusive to wives, mothers and widows..

but i find that some gals expect to be treated in a way that is as if we shd be more kind and carin towards women when they do wrong or dun really live as Christians shd..we're expected to gloss over faults and even wat we really shd call sinfulness just because they're ladies..

so, if a lady acts in a selfish or self-centred manner we should somehow be more acceptin and kind and dun point dat out? i really dun think dats wat Jesus would do..He tells His mother,"who are my father and mother and brothers? Those who do the will of my Father in heaven" Mtt. 12:48-50 and again"Dear woman, why do you involve me? My time has not yet come" Jn2:4...not very polite or respectful (from an Asian point-of-view)...

in reality, dun mince words..watever gender, nationality, skin colour or culture, Christian truth needs to be told and needs to be brought home with the greatest impact possible..i'd rather it be hard and harsh and painful in order to save from hell den soft or coddlin or wimp-ish and hell-sendin...just too bad if u happen to be more sensitive den others in dis respect..