Lets Talk about Sex

sex...amazin 3 letters we all, regardless of age and frankly, gender, would like to have more of...right guys? a chorus of agreement...

lets face it la..there's a lot of sexuality and desire in our modern society..not all good but all reflecting a deep inner need of humanity...and it is true that many of us Asians are averse to talkin about our sexual needs, fetishes and wants..watevea e newspapers have been sayin lately, i still dun see sex as a topic u'd discuss at the dinner table with mom n pops..which is der gold standard of openess to mi..

when a guy has a sexual experience for der 1st time i believe its very often in a moment of folly...like my fren tells mi...its not alwaez fun becos u dunno wats goin on..it can be a traumatisin n shameful experience as he says; my fren..painful for both der guy n gal...n later when u reallli do it with ur wife or the truth is, for most, their 'galfrens', the thought, "hey, i've done this before" comes to mind...n dat is a secret i hope dat ur wife never finds out unless u're both open enuff for u to tell her..

wat we need in singapore is not a liberal attitude toward sex la...like spg puts it ;-> n wat would dat accomplish? absolutely nuts but for a single muders, unwanted babes n der rise of a new class of have-nots..no father...n contraception? nice but for one caveat...sex is dehumanised n wat dehumanises also desensitizes ...no more fun, joy n a dull throb(or thrust) dat passes off for wat was once pleasure...pathetic

wat singapore needs is open discussion of sex n sexual cravin...sex should humanise n talk of sex should always whet the appetite like a delicate appetizer before a meal...lets be more human n discuss our sexual desires more candidly without blushin but also with respect n dignity...its not a sleaze fest but a love fest baby...

Der Company I Keep

By a man's frens n der company he keeps can his character be judged..it is said...but how can u tell so when he is forced to keep company with different types of pple he would not in everyday life get to meet, much less know?

well, how we interact in such a settin betrays our charcter even more i say..if one treats der jerks in life just so they noe they're jerks yet works well with em on e basis o' mutual respect, then dat says a lot bout der guy's charcter...

anywaez, der backdrop to all dis pseudo-philosophical bull crap is dis...dat i went for my 46 SAR Sp coy cohesion evenin today...n i pay tribute to these men, those in command (not all of whom i like or respect) n those who hav stuck thru it with mi

it was good to noe these frens n good to hav gone thru all der screw-ups n excellent hardships with them..it is great dat tho we all do not alwaes get along, i trust them with my back(well,most of em at least)..wallaby's over, Atec's over, NDP's over..onli Ops B left..then to der winds we all will scatter

we take care of our own(or at least dats wat i'd like to believe) n i thank all of em for der memories, n der shit, n der pain, n der misery, n der bonds of combat, n for all those i do not like who hav helped mi become more mature, patient n acceptin (of shitheads like der current charlie sierra mike)

its been a long nite for all of us...n its still a few hours to der dawn..but in der pre-dawn wind, i have finally felt e beauty n purpose of der night...n now i understand der sayin,"night is a hole in yesterday, and a tunnel into tomorrow"...sweet dreamin..

whoa! who's there rose amongst e thorns? Fuzz transformed by der Fairy God mudder? ;-) 

a coupl'a dudes frm Chua's 'year-of-the-raccon' which became one of my best years of life 

strange man...wonder who dis dick is many times myself 

wats dat at e door? not armagedeon yet i hope.. 

when u're bald,young n dumb,trust frens n family to be there 

Long Time Ago

Phuture wed 100805. easy entry, few drinks capped by a lychee martini n, lo n behold, as der crowd packs in whom do i see? my ol' classmate Vignesh Louis Naidu with 2 cute Chinese Chicks...sweet..s'been along time since der ol' SA daes indeed..hot rod la my man...haha

very long since last i went to Mambo on a wed nite...since i swore off der meaninglessness of drunken bingein (tho i never actualli got knocked out sare), woman lustin n spiritual uncleanliness..i'm not makin a comeback by e way..i also missed der break beats, der phunk, hip-hop n yes, der retro songs..electric dream,love in der 1st degree, square rooms, i should be so lucky etc..also missed der fine house of DJ Andrew Chow n Tony Tay n der amazin dance floor..not makin any comeback wateva it is

a nite of fun with der guys it was la..its kinda sad dat they're closin Zouk soon for a major revamp to compete with MOS year end (1 other main reason i went down)..i realli hope der grand ol' lady can remain on top, remain innovative n play good musik..i never saw Zouk as der place to pick up chix like some other places i noe which hav dat rep...alwaes was e pioneer in dance, music, decor n good, clean, after-dark enjoyment..'cept for dat short fiasco in der mid 90s with ecstasy..which every1 just wants to forget (not e lessons tho)

well, here's to dat grand ol' lady of e local club n dance scene...mani more mambos may she hav...may no one tryin to Sound her out be able to rub her face Black or Thump her down in der dirt; instead let her shine brighter than Onyx n not be beDevil'd by e competition...

Pay it Forward

while at the Festival of Praise '05 last sat i can say dat i never spent more time under a blazin sun in der civilian world waitin than i did dat day. Call no man happy until he is dead, Herodotus wrote. i realli felt dat way on sat, wat with der barmy weather and infinite queue size..i felt dat i should be dead becos i was most unhappy n dissatisfied..

just when all hope seemed lost and satan appeared to be winnin..my dear Aunt Margaret brought up a cone of delectable magnum for myself n another 2 for der 2 lasses on my right n left. t'was heaven in a small cone i tell ya..n i am truli grateful to her..when there are people aroun u who love n care for u, the universe can seem a much less forbiddin place.Its God's way of makin things a little more comfortin for those of us stuck in dis damn existence called life..

and today, on my way home from a nice lil' movie, i caught sight of a poster on der bus stop wall callin attention to a certain missin old lass in her 70s...my first reaction was to exclaim up urs! who cares?! but something came to my mind..this kinda event used to draw a community together in der past n in lesser developed countries..not any more...why? apathy? self-occupation? urban mistrust in der class of e NKF debacle? u decide...

one thing i noe...a decent human being would call der no. if dat old lady happened to be standin next to dat sign...mayb like my Aunt Margaret, individuals in society should try doin good without benefit or even for dat feel-good emotional high once in a while...it benefits all in der long run cos wat goes aroun invariably comes aroun..n if bad can go aroun, why can't good?

but realli, try doin good for good's sake cos u won't often be happy doin good...once again, call no man happy until he is dead...n please my dear City Harvest Organiser frens..just a friendli reminder..better crowd control would make Christians (and by extension, Jesus) happier and less like a mass orgy in progress when the gates open...

e lightin sucked n features are blurred; i noe, i noe...n der study was taken at a bad(aka untidy) time but dat sucker's mi alright
der guy on der left's mi...apologies for der grainy photo...dats not my sugar daddy by e way...lest u get e wrong idea

The Great Turkey Shoot

very strange i find us Singaporeans sometimes...people from all sorts of backgrounds with absolutely zero political experience seek to be elected as president...we might as well pin pictures of anybody on a dartboard n throw a few darts to see who gets chosen as president..

seriousli....do u have any idea who these other candidates are orwat their former track record is? with e exception of e ex-JTC guy, none have any real administrative or bureacartic experience man...anyway, none has any real political experience or has ever served as an MP before...

can we please have more politically savvy presidential candidates?...i would personally like to see Chiam See Tong as a candidate man...or Tony Tan...oh well, the onli good thing dat comes out of this is dat Aug 27 will now be a holiday...notwithstandin its a sat n all..so i guess, why should i complain dat every four? years, some blokes come out ready to be shot down as well...turkeys in the Great Turkey Shoot that produces a presidential winner...man...wat's next? a Round-Robin contest for next Prime Minister?